Stories that connect us

Welcome to the BelongingU blog, a space where I explore the power of connection, the joy of learning, and the journey to authentic belonging. Dive into insights on transforming campus culture, hear inspiring student moments, and discover new ways to foster a sense of 'us.' I hope these stories spark ideas, ignite joy, and help you feel truly seen and understood.

Unpacking belonging

Dr. Benny's articles delve deep into the 'Five Rs belonging framework' and Indigenous knowledge, offering practical strategies for college leaders, diversity officers, and student affairs professionals. Explore how relational, research-based consulting can create meaningful impact and transform your campus culture. These insights are designed to empower you with the tools to cultivate environments where everyone thrives.

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When Employees Lose Their Sense of Belonging: Reclaiming Joy and Responsibility

Feb 26, 2026 9:20 AM

Life is hard and lately, it has been especially hard. My husband and I adopted two incredible children this past year. They are bright, loving, and resilient, and they also carry a lot of learning and relearning with them. Our home can feel hectic, emotional, and unpredictable. We have really good days, and we have really tough ones. Often, the tone of the evening depends on how their day went, and when I walk through the door, I need to be present. Parenting requires you to be in it.

It’s FYE Planning Season: Why the First Year Matters More Than We Think

Feb 1, 2026 3:00 PM

Around this time of year, many campuses are deep in planning their First-Year Experience (FYE) programs such as mapping out orientations, Week of Welcome events, and the countless details that shape a student’s earliest moments in college. These efforts are not simply logistical exercises. They are cultural and relational investments that influence how students see themselves, their campus, and their future. KEY POINT: This is the true introduction to a student on what it means to be a college student at your school! Mission, vision, values, tradition, etc.

Closing a Chapter, Opening a New Door

Jan 28, 2026 12:12 PM

After a lot of reflection, conversation, and listening to that quiet inner voice that doesn’t let go, I’m sharing that I will be leaving my role as Vice President of Student Affairs, Enrollment, and Belonging at Bellin College at the conclusion of this semester.